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7 Tips On How To Talk To Girls Online in 2018

Starting a conversation with a girl is intimidating. Fortunately, the existence of social media and dating sites made it a lot easier. There are a lot of dating websites and social media platforms where you can meet and chat with women at any time you want by simply sending a short greeting. You have a lot of options when it comes to women and facing rejection is definitely easier in front of the computer screen. An online dating expert has shared his advice on how to talk to girls online the right way.

“You can send 100 messages a day and get 0 responses, or you can send only one and get a response back. It all depends on the quality of your message and the way of approaching. I’ve learned my techniques throughout the past few years of being a member of multiple dating sites after I got divorced. At the beginning, I was failing almost every time and never even got to the first date. I spent several months of research about how to keep a girl interested and practising on how to talk to girls online and now I must admit I became a pro. I wanted to share my tips on how to talk to women online:”    

How to talk to a girl online without being creepy 

“Being creepy is indeed the worst thing that can happen to a man online. Most of the time we don’t even realize we are being creepy, but we are. Once a woman gets the creepy vibe from you, you are out. Here is my advice on how to talk to a girl over text without sounding creepy or desperate.”

1. Pick a platform

“You have a lot of options when it comes to choosing a platform to talk to girls online on. It could be a dating site, Facebook, Instagram, forums, online games. After you picked your platform, make sure your profile is appealing and appropriate. It is very important to double check your profile information, photos and anything else that you have decided to share about yourself on there. The first thing a woman will do after receiving your message is looking at your profile and based on this fact she will either reply to your text or ignore it.”

2. Don’t spam her

“Limit yourself to one message at a time, do not double text her as you may come off as desperate or annoying. Send her one message and wait for her to reply. If she doesn’t, then move on. Sending multiple messages at once will most likely get you blocked. There are plenty of fish in the sea.”

3. Things to avoid while talking online: 

  • Calling her sexy or hot. This is a turnoff for women and gives the impression that you are only looking for a physical relationship
  • Asking short questions such as “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?” one after another. The conversation will become boring very fast as these questions are very general and don’t require much of explanation or discussion
  • Being dry. A lot of men assume that playing it cool and sending short replies like “haha”, “nice” after starting a conversation with a woman will only make her want them more. It’s false. She will get the idea that you are just not that into her and will stop replying to you
  • Drunk texting. This is a big no. We all become more brave and outgoing under the influence of alcohol. However, sending her that “Heyyy baby” message at 2 in the morning is not a good idea. Wait until you are sober and properly greet her online, she will appreciate it.

How to talk to a girl online examples

“There are various possible conversation-starters that you can use on women online. Some work better than others. Here are some examples of online dating messages that get responses:”

4. Greetings

  • “Hi, how are you today?”
  • “Saw your profile and just had to say hi”
  • “Hey, how’s your day going?”
  • “Hi there, how’s life treating you today?”
  • “ Hello there, I hope you are having a great day!”
  • “Hey, how has your week been?”

5. Funny/Flirty Texts

  • “I bet my dog would like you”
  • “I can’t think of anything better happening to me today than getting a reply for you”
  • “You had me at It’s a Match”
  • “I think you’re stunning, would you like to chat sometime?”
  • “It would make my day if you replied to this message:)”
  • “You are the reason I’m smiling at my screen right now”

6. Ice-breakers

“If you don’t know how to talk to a girl online you don’t know, read on. These questions will get the conversation going and some of them are good romantic topics to talk with a girlfriend in the future ;)”

  • “What do you like to do in your free time?”
  • “What is the one thing you are most passionate about?”
  • “I love hearing about other people’s stories and experiences. Do you have anything you would like to share?”
  • “What is your idea of an amazing day?”
  • “Do you have any brothers or sisters?”
  • “What countries have you visited so far?’
  • “What are the places you are hoping to visit in the future?”
  • “Can you describe yourself in one word?”

7. Asking her for a date

  • “I had a really great time chatting with you, would you like to continue our discussion over a cup of coffee?”
  • “I know a very good nacho/pizza/seafood place in the city, would you like to join me for a dinner tonight?”
  • “The weather is beautiful today, how does a walk in a park sound to you?”

This is my advice on how to talk to girls online and every girl will love you) I hope it was understandable and easy to follow. Don’t forget to use emoticons or smiley faces in your texts, it has been proven that women are more likely to reply to a text that has a smiley face in it. Good luck!”

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7 Tips On How To Talk To Girls Online in 2018

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