I’m new to dating. I’ve been married for 21 years, so when it came to divorce I took a good bit of time to recover.
I was 42 when I first registered on Kismia.com. Kismia is actually the one and only dating website I’ve ever used. I should point out in my review that I never looked up how to complete a profile, what’s working and what’s not. But I fell in love twice within last 3 years and Kismia was the only place to help me find my soulmate.
Here’s how it looks like:
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I found it pretty truthful.
What I discovered on Kismia was remarkable
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Many really interesting men poured their hearts out to me. I’ve even received messages like “no way you’re over 40” or “how come you’re divorced?”
Even though I’ve always been in good shape, tried to eat healthy food and have enough sleep, it was a bit surprising to find myself attractive like…still, you know?
Younger men were so funny to message me with “hey baby, wanna have some fun?” not realizing I was 10 or so years older than them. But the most refreshing thing was to really find a looot of men of my age who were actually looking for the same things I was. Most of them are adults who know what they want from their lives, women and relationships:
Sign up is simple. Choose your gender, the gender you’re looking for, enter your name, email and create a password. That’s actually all you need to join the site. Start here if you want to experience Kismia for yourself right now.
Later on, if you decide to login on the website again use this autosave option so you don’t need to recall your password every time.
Here’s a couple of momentum screens for you to understand what I’m talking about:
Adjusting search parameters allows me to see only the matches with the age I’m looking for:
I believe I turned out to be so popular on the website due to the time and effort I put into my profile. It’s easy to make it look perfect if you will sincerely complete it. I truthfully answer all the questions leaving some space for imagination. As far as this is a dating site review, you might want to read some of my pearls; I’m okay with this:
As you can see I added more than one photo, and it’s not a bathroom one (younger guys really like to post them in their profiles). Add some title in the top, and now people can “read” my mood and conversations might start more quickly.
I tried to answer all the questions Kismia suggests, and it was fun! I liked it. If people were back in the day they would probably post two-page handwritten descriptions of themselves, haha.
Some of the users totally skip this part of their profiles, and I think it’s not going to work like that. Look, if you want to find someone special, have a great chat with him or her, and after—meet in person and maybe start dating, having a full-worked profile is a must.
How did I start looking for my dream man?
Seems like Kismia.com is for all ages, but having so many good men in their 30s, 40s and 50s here, you simply cannot decide which one to choose!
Personally I used greetings, surprises and stickers to break the ice and be nice. A lot of males who’ve messaged me did the same.
It worked well for me. You shouldn’t try to impress someone from the first message. Just talk as you do every day and show some sincere curiosity towards him, something like this.
When I found my first true match and we officially started dating, I was so happy I had made this step and was brave enough to start chatting first. Later on we broke up, and after some time I created a new profile and moved on.
You might wonder why it was so easy for you to go back and forth and then end up in a happy relationship? Honestly, I don’t know why people are so obsessed with being perfect for someone or even everyone. For me, having a dating site profile is something like going to the bar every now and then; it’s not like putting extra effort, but at least you’re doing something toward finding someone special, right?
What’s that something “more” that everyone wants?
A lot of my friends can’t believe I didn’t use popular dating websites to find my future partner. I always have this answer: if you’re okay being a member of one normal community and you feel satisfied with it, why look for something more?
I’ve met two amazing men there and even if it didn’t work now, it will work later. When the right time comes. I’m an optimist at heart!